The guy I’ve been casually dating for about 4 months name is Bryan. And actually dating. He’s not my boy friend. We’re not FBO (Facebook Official). It’s kind of a funny story. Bryan and I have known each other a few years through a mutual friend, but didn’t know there was any mutual interest until those 4 months ago… I think four months anyway…. We hardly even talked till recently. We actually have more in common the I expected, and I’ve grown to really like him. I was trying to just make this a summer romance cause I’m going across the state for college and long distance things are always…. Iffy. But I asked him the question that’s been burning in the back of my head lately on whether or not we have a plan. And now he wants to talk in person. We’ll see how this goes….
Slide to unlock
A phrase used to describe a girl that is “easy”. They are just like the iPhone, as simple as slide to unlock.
Ben: Damn, did you see that girl? I’d get with that any day.
Trevor: Nah dude, slide to unlock.
My friend Pearl has an interesting specimen of a boy friend. His name is Broderick and he is a very Christian and Arian looking boy. I thought at the very start of their relationship that it would be fun to observe. Pearl is sexually active but I would say that she is currently…. Dormant (?) Because of her partner. This guy on the other hand. I have never heard of anything like him.
Maybe it’s just the west coast liberal lifestyle that I’m used to, but I’ve never met some one who said they were abstinent and really meant it. Broderick has only masturbated once in his whole 20 years of being alive. ONCE! Normally, if anyone else were to say that I would say they are full of shit, but Broderick is one of the most honest people I’ve met. Apparently the last time he did it was winter of his 8th grade year. Just to “make sure everything worked”.
I don’t see how this is going to work out for Pearl. She already mentioned that she is getting impatient with it because everyone else she has ever been with has been so straight forward about what they’ve wanted. He has given into her a little though. He’s gotten his first handsy from her and never let anyone do that before. (Handsy = Hand Job). He told her he let it happened because it “felt good”. Isn’t that how it starts?
But funny fact that I’ve learned from that handsy she gave him. Did you know that if you’re diabetic and your blood sugar level is too high you can lose your boner? I didn’t. Fact of the day.
So I’ve decided to change this blog from just normal what ever I feel like posting to talking about my sex life and my friends’ sex lives. I originally wanted to write a book, but I feel like the motivation of needing to update something will help me write more. Not to mention the majority of the population spends its time on the computer.
I decided to write about sex because it is my dream to become a sex therapist. There has to be some sort of sexual journey leading up to my career, so why not write about it? It’s also a good time filler for the many years that it will take for me to get my Ph. D. Kind of a pre-professionalism series of events. What my opinions are now compared to what they might be then. Facts and things.
My friends and I are on all different levels of sexual being so I feel like writing about them will make it so people can relate. We have 2 virgins, some one like Samantha from Sex in the City, some one who is currently with a guy that’s waiting till marriage, and me. I think I’m more on the average side of things, if there really is such a thing as average.
So here it is. If you don’t like it sorry, if you do let me know with some feedback!